A Swiss Army tool, when the intent is good and the EQ is high
2022-02-15
In a meeting recently, someone asked me, "Don't you lead a young team?" I paused and sensed an opportunity to use humor to improve the question's premise.
I trusted that his intent was honorable, so I took a risk and responded sarcastically but kindly: "Are you being ageist?" Thankfully he recognized I was being playful and didn't respond negatively.
Then I answered his original question. "Yes, I lead a team of highly trained, creative, new-career professionals." A friendly and productive conversation followed.
Humor is a Swiss Army tool for nudging, when it is supported by good intent and executed with high EQ.
Thanks to Logan for inspiring me to start writing, and to Susan Cunningham for role-modeling how to take a stand meaningfully and kindly.
Until next time, I wish you a fantastic future.
"A sense of humor helps us get through dull times, cope with the difficult times, enjoy the good times and manage the scary times." — Unknown
First published on LinkedIn, 15 February 2022. Lightly revised. Original post.